The Eternal Life of the Grateful Dead

“What’s the difference between a duck? One leg’s both the same,” Andy Tichenor, lead singer of the local Brothers and Sisters band, announced. This joke, once told in 1979 by Bob Weir, a founding member of the Grateful Dead, was repeated at his tribute 13 days after he passed. Though nonsensical, the crowd chuckled at the familiar line. Some had been at the first show where it was told, and were still here appreciating his cheek.

The tribute to Weir, hosted by Tichenor, was held at the Jefferson Theater on Jan. 23. Tichenor began the night by quipping back and forth with his bandmates in classic Grateful Dead fashion, before launching into “Not Fade Away,” a song known to many Weir fans. The atmosphere in the theater was light despite the loss; all were there to appreciate Weir’s life rather than mourn his death. 

Tichenor was joined by Kent Raine and Craig Dougald on drums, Adam Terrel on guitar, Sam Johnson on keyboard, and Stuart Holme on bass. No fewer than 11 guest performers joined them as the night played out, all offering a different take on Weir’s music. 

Abigail Wagner, one of the local guest singers, performed a lively rendition of “Me and Bobby McGee,” while Tichenor’s cover of “He’s Gone” was mellow and heartfelt. No matter what was played, the crowd was attentive, and many knew all the words. The crowd consisted of old-timers who had been following the Grateful Dead since the beginning and a younger generation just discovering their music. 

Lory Bedotto, a former Deadhead, described how it was difficult for the Grateful Dead to perform in a recording studio. Their performances were “a circular movement of energy from them to the crowd and back to them.” Without that aspect, there was no “connection” to drive their performance. Though the event was nearly sold out, the balcony seating was empty. The Jefferson’s capacity of 400 was almost met, but everyone wanted to be near the music, and energy was high as the band sang. 

Many people in the crowd had been to Grateful Dead shows all over the world. Melody Norback, another attendee and Deadhead, went to every show they performed in Europe in 1990. She and Lory Bedotto were both there without knowing each other, and they laughed about their similar experiences and spontaneous meeting. 

As the show came to a close and the band began to depart, the crowd clapped for another song, and Tichenor and his crew gave in. “Fare you well, fare you well. I love you more than words can tell,” they sang as a final goodbye. As “Broke Down Palace” ended and the band departed, the tribute came to a close. 

The Grateful Dead are still bringing people together. In the ’70s, and still after 50 years, they hold a special place in many hearts. The spirit of their music is still as widespread as it was back then, with a new generation ready to appreciate their music. Every tribute and cover that is played will keep the Grateful Dead forever young.